Our friend 'Grub' Younger visited us yesterday on his way back from Lakes Entrance where he spent the weekend in a fishing party of eight people from around Greta and Moyhu. He went in his own car over the top so he could do the detour to Gembrook and visit us. We had not seen Grub since Mark Kelly's send off in Wang late in 2008. He'd rang last Friday morning to tell us of his intention to visit.
Grub had been to our place twice before. When we moved into our house in July 1981 from Wang it was Grub who moved our furniture down with his cattle truck. He wouldn't even let us pay for fuel, such is the the generous nature of the man, saying he was going on to Dandenong the next day to pick up some steel. He and 'Squeak' Dinning camped on the floor by the open fire in our freezing house still without curtains or carpet and with no electricity as it was not yet connected. The second time Grub and his wife Kerry left baby Shelley with us a year or so later when they attended Bill Forge's wedding somewhere in Melbourne, returning late to stay with us. I had forgotten this but Grub reminded me. He said they must have placed the two boys who were under 5 somewhere back home.
Grub turns 65 this year. He and Kerry had 4 children who are all married. Grub has 10 grandchildren the oldest is eight. He's no longer married to Kerry, they split many years ago. He contracted cancer in his face some 7 years ago and was given even money survival chance, then told if he survived the initial treatment he had a 60 percent chance of living 5 years. He lost an eye and a cheekbone and part of his jaw and forehead. Last year he had an operation to get a new skin patch over where the eye once was as it "rotted away". The new patch has had a fluid leak ever since it was put on and the medicos have not been able to get it to heal.
When he and Kerry split he had to borrow a big whack of money to settle the dissolution, if that is the right term, so that he didn't have to sell his 500 acre farm at Hansonville, which he purchased as a young man from his uncle. He reckons now he has paid for it twice. His eldest son helped remove the debt by buying into it over a decade or so and he now owns a share.
Grub was always a short and thin but he is quite frail compared to the tough little wiry bloke I knew, mainly because it's difficult for him to eat with his reconstructed face and limited chewing ability. Red meat is out. We had a barbie and he managed a couple of chicken kebabs that he cut up very fine and some mashed potato with cheese worked in. That was it, no salad bread or sausage or chop that was also on offer. For all Grub's difficulties he remains positive, always with a quick wit and clear memory for stories.
We talked about many Greta people I have not seen or heard much of in recent times. When I asked him if Terry Wadley had come back from wherever he was in Qld he said, "Yes, he's been back in Wang for a while but things have got bad for him, he was in court last week as he robbed a bloke, and has gone to jail."
Sad Indeed. Terry's older brother Gary is one of Grub's good mates and was one of the eight in the fishing party at Lakes. Apparently Terry stayed with Gary and his wife for a while fairly recently but they ended up having a blue. Then Terry stayed with his sister for a while with the same result.
Terry was an excellent footballer good enough to win the O+K comp best and fairest in 1978. He played for Wangaratta in 1979 but came back to Greta in 1980 to "play in a premiership team", which he did. He was powerfully built for a first rover and an extremely strong runner, he'd explode out the pack and run 50 metres or more bouncing the ball. Molly called him 'Speedy Gonzales'. We were good friends. He had a broken romance which affected him greatly, but he married one of Lib's friends and I well recall their wedding in Yea. The marriage did not last all that long. Prior to all that I recall him staying at the farmhouse I rented in Moyhu, where we sat up drinking all the night till dawn after a football match, and I recall going to his parents place for dinner after training and staying the night, probably when I had lost my driver's license and moved back to live in Wang. Terry worked at the Post Office in Wang then. He was a bit of a gambler, he'd go up to the clubs in Corowa on bus trips and blow $100 on pokies no qualms. That was close to half a week's wage then.
When Lib and I left Wang to come to Gembrook to live we brought with us a rubber tree in a pot that was a gift from Terry's mother Jean. 33 years later we still have it. It has been frostbitten a number of times and dried out and been moved inside and out and repotted but at the moment it thrives and is dear to us and goes by the name 'Wadley'.
After Grub left today I googled the Wang Chronicle and came up with the newspaper report. It does sadden me, it has troubled me all day. I really liked Terry and can only think that he had some problems that were never addressed or identified and somewhere along the way this caused him to veer off the rails. The report below is nothing like the person I knew in the late 1970's.
Grub had been to our place twice before. When we moved into our house in July 1981 from Wang it was Grub who moved our furniture down with his cattle truck. He wouldn't even let us pay for fuel, such is the the generous nature of the man, saying he was going on to Dandenong the next day to pick up some steel. He and 'Squeak' Dinning camped on the floor by the open fire in our freezing house still without curtains or carpet and with no electricity as it was not yet connected. The second time Grub and his wife Kerry left baby Shelley with us a year or so later when they attended Bill Forge's wedding somewhere in Melbourne, returning late to stay with us. I had forgotten this but Grub reminded me. He said they must have placed the two boys who were under 5 somewhere back home.
Grub turns 65 this year. He and Kerry had 4 children who are all married. Grub has 10 grandchildren the oldest is eight. He's no longer married to Kerry, they split many years ago. He contracted cancer in his face some 7 years ago and was given even money survival chance, then told if he survived the initial treatment he had a 60 percent chance of living 5 years. He lost an eye and a cheekbone and part of his jaw and forehead. Last year he had an operation to get a new skin patch over where the eye once was as it "rotted away". The new patch has had a fluid leak ever since it was put on and the medicos have not been able to get it to heal.
When he and Kerry split he had to borrow a big whack of money to settle the dissolution, if that is the right term, so that he didn't have to sell his 500 acre farm at Hansonville, which he purchased as a young man from his uncle. He reckons now he has paid for it twice. His eldest son helped remove the debt by buying into it over a decade or so and he now owns a share.
Grub was always a short and thin but he is quite frail compared to the tough little wiry bloke I knew, mainly because it's difficult for him to eat with his reconstructed face and limited chewing ability. Red meat is out. We had a barbie and he managed a couple of chicken kebabs that he cut up very fine and some mashed potato with cheese worked in. That was it, no salad bread or sausage or chop that was also on offer. For all Grub's difficulties he remains positive, always with a quick wit and clear memory for stories.
We talked about many Greta people I have not seen or heard much of in recent times. When I asked him if Terry Wadley had come back from wherever he was in Qld he said, "Yes, he's been back in Wang for a while but things have got bad for him, he was in court last week as he robbed a bloke, and has gone to jail."
Sad Indeed. Terry's older brother Gary is one of Grub's good mates and was one of the eight in the fishing party at Lakes. Apparently Terry stayed with Gary and his wife for a while fairly recently but they ended up having a blue. Then Terry stayed with his sister for a while with the same result.
Terry was an excellent footballer good enough to win the O+K comp best and fairest in 1978. He played for Wangaratta in 1979 but came back to Greta in 1980 to "play in a premiership team", which he did. He was powerfully built for a first rover and an extremely strong runner, he'd explode out the pack and run 50 metres or more bouncing the ball. Molly called him 'Speedy Gonzales'. We were good friends. He had a broken romance which affected him greatly, but he married one of Lib's friends and I well recall their wedding in Yea. The marriage did not last all that long. Prior to all that I recall him staying at the farmhouse I rented in Moyhu, where we sat up drinking all the night till dawn after a football match, and I recall going to his parents place for dinner after training and staying the night, probably when I had lost my driver's license and moved back to live in Wang. Terry worked at the Post Office in Wang then. He was a bit of a gambler, he'd go up to the clubs in Corowa on bus trips and blow $100 on pokies no qualms. That was close to half a week's wage then.
When Lib and I left Wang to come to Gembrook to live we brought with us a rubber tree in a pot that was a gift from Terry's mother Jean. 33 years later we still have it. It has been frostbitten a number of times and dried out and been moved inside and out and repotted but at the moment it thrives and is dear to us and goes by the name 'Wadley'.
After Grub left today I googled the Wang Chronicle and came up with the newspaper report. It does sadden me, it has troubled me all day. I really liked Terry and can only think that he had some problems that were never addressed or identified and somewhere along the way this caused him to veer off the rails. The report below is nothing like the person I knew in the late 1970's.
Local
man jailed for terror car-jacking, robbery at knifepoint
A WANGARATTA man will spend at least two years in jail over a
car-jacking where he forced his former employer to drive into a remote section
of the Warby Ranges at knifepoint.
Terrence Wadley, 59, was wearing a hoodie over his face and holding a
6-8 inch long knife when he jumped into the passenger seat of the victim’s car
on the afternoon of October 23 last year.
Wadley appeared in the Wangaratta County Court on Monday and received a
four and a half year jail term, with a non-parole period of two years, after
pleading guilty to armed robbery and false imprisonment.
Judge Marilyn Harbison described how Wadley – who had just left his job
at Wangaratta Abattoirs – forced the victim to turn off his mobile phone and
drive into the Warby Range, then took his credit cards and pin numbers before
leaving him stranded on the side of the road.
“You set upon an unarmed man, to impose upon him an extended criminal
act in a situation where he was rightfully fearful and which has caused him
significant emotional distress,” she said.
“He left the track and ran through the scrub, fearing that you might come
to look for him.
“His state of terror at that time is illustrated by the fact he decided
not to approach the first house he saw because he thought you may look for him
there.”